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Ten on Tuesday

1. I painted my nails Barbie doll pink tonight. It’s so out of character for me, but it was close at hand and my toes looked so good (as good as they can) already, so I went for it. They will likely chip off tomorrow.

2. Last week, I made mention that we are moving across base. When we moved here, the housing office didn’t have the size house that Andy qualifies for, so they snuck us into another house for the time being. We didn’t know how long it would be for, but as it turns out, it only took 21 days for the housing office to alert us that sure enough, they had the right house for us.

3. Which means, we are moving across base. Without the benefit of movers and packers. Not complaining, just sayin’.

4. I may have also mentioned that Andy wants to deploy. It’s been in his heart for awhile now, so he’s actively looking for a good fit of a job for him. Now remember, he’s in the Air Force, so he will most likely be out of most harms way, but it’s in the Lord’s hands and I think I can really only do two things: Pray in advance for his safety and be supportive.

5. Did I mention my pink fingernails? Oh yes, they are way cool.

6. I am itching for a new sewing machine. If you have one and like it with four or more stars, please tell me which one to get. I am looking for a mid-range one that I can sew a bunch of aprons and curtains with.

7. I do not like conflict. I do not like emotional train wreck days.

8. I spoke with my one neighbor today that is moving- I have had all of two conversations with her and thought I would thank her for the tree stumps she was throwing out (wait till you see them!) and wish her well in her move. The very last thing she said to me had to be from the Lord, because it was so from left field and off topic. She said if she could give me one piece of advice in life, it would be to remember how important family is. I concurred.

9. I took a new friend’s advice and got Amazon Prime this past week- you spend $80 up front and get all your orders (directly from Amazon) in two days time and no addtional shipping costs. Sweet! Thanks, Christy!

10. I ran my third half-marathon this past Sunday at Disneyland. There were SO many people, jeepers! I ran a personal best (2:12) and am hungry to get training for my next one in January. I have to talk my legs into getting a little faster, though.

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Ten on Tuesday

1. I’m definitely less cranky this week. Thank you for being on my side when I told you about my ridiculous speeding ticket.

2. I’m wearing a black hat today. It’s really cute and I wish I had a green one and maybe a brown one.

3. Sometimes when Lauren doesn’t know a word for something, she makes one up. It sounds like “akabidabi”- she like to rhyme a nonsensical word. Cracks me up.

4. Speaking of fun words, I used the word serendipitous yesterday when I learned my friends Jill and Susy started going to my former Ohio hairstylist randomly (that is, I did not recommend them, but I wish I had since Lisa is SO awesome)… Then it reminded me that I want to go back to New York City to get a frozen hot chocolate at Serendipity.

5. After that facebook announcement, I learned that Las Vegas also has a Serendipity, so I’m road trip planning for next year. Is it weird to go from one desert to another for vacation?

6. I wear my heart on my sleeve and darn those tears just roll over whenever they want sometimes. I was tearing up for the lady in front of me at the post office yesterday wrangling three kids sending a care package to her husband in Afghanistan. I introduced myself in the parking lot, what can I do, what can I do to ease her load I thought? I have a few friends in this situation, and it never gets easier on the old tear ducts. You know who you are, I love you and hope you know I pray for you during this season.

7. Andy announced to me that it was husband appreciation week on facebook. I had no idea. So I bought him some of these to celebrate:

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I seriously crack myself up. :D

8. I’ve watched a few movies this past week: Nanny McPhee Returns (little c, big P)- super cute for the girls, but bring the tissue for yourself… The Hurt Locker, winner of like all things Oscar last year- makes me want to hold my looking-to-be-deployed-spouse tightly, and the last one is from years ago- The Green Mile with Tom Hanks and Michael Clarke Duncan. It was rather long, but also a very good movie. What are you watching lately?

9. Do you ever wonder why weeds can even grow in the desert rampantly?

10. Lauren and I are still keeping busy with letters in our pm hours together. We’re still focusing in on her letters from her name, but I wanted to share a couple of things we’re doing: forming letters in rice in a pie pan is an activity (as well as shaving cream and finger paints!) she requests daily and she has her own alphabet up in her room now, so after some focused one-on-one time with the letter of the week, we go and make games to identify letters on the walls. Since we are moving across base in a few weeks, we haven’t done any permanent hanging of wall items, so excuse the alphabets falling off, and yea Lolo!

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Ten on Tuesday: The Day Late and $466 Short Edition

1. We spent the weekend with my family celebrating my brother’s birthday.

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2. When we arrived home Sunday, we picked up the mail only to find the fine for my recent speeding ticket.

3. I spent the next two hours wondering aloud how California is OUT OF ITS MIND to charge me $466 because I was speeding (let’s momentarily forget how fast I was going, ok?) (pick me, pick my side).

4.  So my mom & dad e-mailed me and said, “How many pairs of shoes could that buy?”

5. Andy said, “I should have driven home.”

6. I said, “This is unjust!”

7. And I put my head down, shook it and felt embarrassed, disappointed, ashamed and mildly ticked off. At myself of course, and WHOever is in charge of these citations.

8. I am still a little cranky about the whole mess. Wouldn’t you be?

9. Remember, you picked me, you’re on my side.

10. I’m currently wallowing away and eating Bakerella’s version of Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough Brownies. You should definitely give that  recipe a try if you haven’t yet, wow, it’s a good one to take the crankies away.

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Ten on Tuesday

1. Every afternoon at 4:30, the National Anthem blares from the voice box on base. The girls run toward it and stand with their “Hands over our haaarts” (as Lolo would say) as it plays. It’s one of the most adorable things ever.Untitled-8

2. With the onset of back-to-school comes school paperwork. As a student, I remember coming home with a stack for my mom being super excited for her to jot down all necessary information. As a parent, I’m overwhelmed with piles that need to be filled out for three kids. I see a lot of unnecessary items in there, actually. Like, permission to call me if some emergency comes up from the district office. YES, yes! I want to know, call my phone with an automated message. Why do I need to sign something saying that?

3. The girls seem to be completely content with their teachers (at least Sarah and Ashleigh do, we’ll find out Lauren’s take on class next week) and classes, which makes me a happy mama.

4. My toes are something nasty as I step up the mileage. Yes, I’m talking about my toes. I know: Gross.

5. While shopping for groceries yesterday, I reached up to grab a box of vanilla and it was just tall enough to hit the McCormick sign above. The sign was slightly loose and I jostled it just enough that the entire display fell on me, cutting my finger on its way down. Hmph. We’ll file this under “Adventures at the Comissary.”

6. I have to send a family picture in for the girls’ emergency kits. The last time we took a picture with all of us in it was in DC this past May and two of the three girls look less than interested- case in point…

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So I’m sending the picture perfect Christmas photo taken last November. I can’t help but feel superficial.

7. I should not be shopping on etsy this week with 412 other things to do, BUT, I am tired of feeling guilty of using the plastic bags for our produce so I bought some reusable ones here. And while I was over there, I picked up a darling little make-up/cosmetic bag to hold all of my lip gloss because I have an overabundance and can never find any at the bottom of that darn bag that parades around as my purse. Super excited that it will be here soon!

8. While folding laundry tonight, Andy and I had nothing else to watch but Cupcake Wars. I would like 45 minutes of my television time back, thankyouverymuch. Reality TV has met a new low.

9. The world’s largest spiders live in my garage. After a surprise appearance of one in a small trash can the other evening, I have taken to shaking, pounding and knocking all materials gathered from the garage to be brought inside. After that, Andy found a black widow in our office, and I found a cricket on steroids in my running shorts. Now everything gets a good shake before I pick it up. It’s a great way to live, I tell ya.

10. I went to the movies on Saturday with some new friends from base. We saw Eat Pray Love and I must say, I certainly didn’t care for the book as much as I enjoyed the movie. It must have been the Julia Roberts charm. Or, the storyline that deviated from the book. Have you seen it?

Happy Tuesday!

Ten on Tuesday

1. The packers on the Ohio end wrapped each pair of my shoes in packaging paper. I was a tiny bit smiley to unwrap those gems as I pulled them out of the box, trying to guess which shoes they were before completely visible. Do I need to get a life or what?

2. Just weeks ago I spoke highly of my iPhone. Love, LOVE it. Since it’s been dead for a few days now, I have appreciated its accessibility even more. The Apple store is quite a drive from our new home, so I’m hoping to get it back in working order tomorrow.

3. The girls are very picky about their whole wheat bread. I switched it up this week and got some oats and grains in it and you would have thought I was feeding them grass straight from the field!

4. Recently, my friend Reina was telling me about the documentary Food, Inc. and it piqued my interest so I watched it over my long run this past week. Since then, I haven’t stopped thinking about the food we are putting into our bodies. I’m not sure what will come of it, but it’s kind of cool to read this family’s journey in experimentation.

5. We have cable TV again! It’s been just short of a year since we’ve had it and it’s WONDERful. Honestly, it’s not about having 500 channels to choose from- for me, it’s about having HGTV while I’m folding laundry! ha.

6. The older girls begin school next Monday. I can’t help but wonder, what happened to school beginning the first Tuesday after Labor Day?

7. The school supply list called for “one ream of paper.” Is that lined wide ruled paper? Printer paper? I’m at a loss.

8. I am shopping around for a his and hers sign to go above our towels in the master bathroom. After eight years of marriage, it still drives me crazy when the “his” gets confused and uses the “her” towel. Hmph. I thought a mosaic tiled sign would be cool, but I haven’t found anything yet on etsy that meets my needs.

9. A few months ago, my friend Kelly (and her family) preceded us in arriving to the Middle of Nowhere, CA and invited me to be apart of her book club (thank you, Kelly!). We are currently  reading The Help by Kathryn Stockett and can I just say, I’m LOVING it. Don’t give away the ending, just tell me how much you’ve loved it, too!

10. We were in such a hurry to unpack last week that we stacked empty boxes off to the side to “deal with” later. Today was later and this little sight is now unseen. It’s kind of comical, though- we really were surrounded with boxes upon boxes!

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Happy Tuesday, friends!

Ten on Tuesday-ish

1. Tap. Tap. Tap, is this thing on?

2. Andy noted that this has been my longest blog break, like ever. It’s true. It’s been a lot busy in our life and this little place has taken a backseat.

3. Since I last blogged three weeks ago, I celebrated a(nother) birthday, flew to California to say good-bye to my grandmother, flew home, watched fireworks for a week, packed up our home  and said good-bye to our Ohio friends. See? Busy.

4. Which brings me to today: we moved back to California for a few years. I use the word “moved” loosely since we currently are at my parents waiting to hear of the housing situation at Andy’s new base to decide if we’ll live on base or get to search for a new home off base. Just call me your homeless friend.

5. I’ve been using the alarm option on my phone more and more. Can I just say that the “harp” sound is a much  gentler sound than the actual “alarm” option that sounds like a bull horn in my bedroom? Ah, nice peaceful, kind of Zen.

6. Have you used Yelp! before? It’s one of the coolest apps we have on our iPhone- you can check it out online, too, but basically if you’re in the mood for say Mexican food in an area unfamiliar to you, you just plug in the location and choose the type of food you’d like to eat at and BAM! reviews come up for really good unknown places. We used all across America, I highly recommend it (and it’s not just limited to food, but all kinds of businesses).

7. Does it sound like I’m a little bit in love with my phone, because I am. I haven’t sat down at a keyboard for over a week, but my phone accesses some favorite spots on the Internet still.

8. Cities we stayed in during our trip: Springfield, MO, Amarillo, TX, and Flagstff, AZ. I was a little bit ready to move to Flagstaff- they have a darling Old Town area and the siteseeing is a little, grand. We’re definitely going back!

9. During this trip, I was super excited to cross off ONE more state on my list of states I’ve traveled to/through. Oklahoma goes in the 31st slot, only 19 states to go and I’m scheming now to get more crossed off. How many states have you been to?

10. I’ve taken a few pictures in the past 3 weeks, but I can’t access them at the moment, so enjoy one from St. Louis via my camera phone: the famous Gateway Arch. Kind of cool, no?

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Ten on Tuesday: Adventures Around Ohio Wrapped Up

While Andy was away on a three-month internship in Washington, D.C. this past spring, I thought the best way to help pass the time would be to go on daytime adventures with the girls. I made a list of places in the area that had either been recommended to me, or that I was curious to see with the girls and we set off. It’s going to be impossible to give each visit it’s own post in the coming weeks, so I’ve decided to wrap them up here in a quick Ten on Tuesday post- at least for documentation for our family.

Oh boy, was I excited that we got all ten checked off our list this past week-  I think the girls were, too! No more dragging them across Ohio to see what there is to see…

1. April 17: Aullwood Audobon Center… Spring was in full bloom mid-April and we enjoyed a hike out in nature, the hands-on learning center and a nearby farm with horses, sheep and cartwheels.

_MG_7078-Edit2. April 18: Whit’s Frozen Custard in Lebanon… I already blogged this excursion down south- the custard did not disappoint, the little downtown area was just as charming as I remember and we even did a little antiquing with “hands to our sides.” I am seriously a broken record. Remember Lauren with long hair?

_MG_7216-Edit3. May 8: 2nd Street Market… A perfect rainy day for a visit to a semi-indoor Farmer’s Market. I had only read about this quaint little spot near downtown Dayton and was pleasantly surprised at the amount of people visiting on a normal morning. We bought some vegetables and candy and as promised, supported the lone creperie. There were even Czech dancers there performing a dance that would be later performed at the World Festival. I can’t wait to take Andy on my birthday this weekend!

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4. May 8: Dayton Art Institute… We had to double up some of our adventures due to visits to and from D.C. and birthday parties and cookouts. As it turned out, I didn’t leave a lot of flexibility in our spring schedule, but we made do. The architecture on the exterior of the art institute is extremely impressive, although I don’t think the girls gave a second look. I took plenty of pictures that might look cool as black and whites but I was impressed with this children’s display in the basement with thousands of 3D paper butterflies surrounding gumball statue. The artwork is titled “Shimmering Madness” and although I’m not confident that shimmering belongs in there, madness most definitely applies. It was unique to say the least.

_MG_8036-Edit5. May 16… Columbus Zoo: We met friends Missy, Maya and Laney at the Columbus Zoo where we tailgated a lunch, visited Asia, Africa and Australia, and went on a carousel. The girls usually love most zoos, but this one was impressive for not only its sights, but also it’s layout. You definitely need a full day or perhaps two days to enjoy it all. It would probably be more enjoyable to visit when the polar bears weren’t fresh from the Arctic and on a Tuesday morning rather than a Sunday afternoon, but overall, a successful and enjoyable day!

_MG_9333-Edit6. May 23: Town Hall Theatre Performance… The girls all enjoyed the live performance of Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty on stage. We had incredible seats for our first theatrical performance together and I was super impressed with how well even Lauren did watching the shows. It lasted maybe two hours with an intermission and we all couldn’t stop talking about how well the young performers did! I’m pretty sure more performance are in their near future (This was an act from Sleeping Beauty)!

Untitled-37. June 6: Strawberry Festival… We already discussed this afternoon here- we went, we saw, we got muddy.

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8. June 11: Newport Aquarium… So, when the girls and I were driving toward Cincinnati, I didn’t actually *know* that this adventure was taking across the state line- that’s the advantage to living in the Midwest instead of the great states of the west where you drive for days in brown and heat and stay in the same state. In the Midwest, you get to state line hop, ha! The aquarium located in Kentucky did not disappoint and as it turned out- the girls were really into the shark and toad exhibit. Sarah begged to two-finger pet the smaller sharks. I couldn’t risk her losing two fingers under my supervision, though. And the toads- completely and utterly gross. Seriously, gross. But this is my favorite shot looking up, so no toads to gross you out, too.

Untitled-19. June 16: The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis… I was worried we weren’t going to be able to make this excursion happen. It was the furthest away (a two hour drive) and the weather between here and there has been stormy. I don’t do stormy, actually. I saw an opening last week and took it and am so glad we did. This might deserve it’s own post in the future, there were a wonderful amount of hands-on exhibits for the girls and they genuinely had fun. Their favorite was by far the Barbie experience, but I loved watching them in the tree house and ice cream parlor pretending to be grown-ups. It’s all perspective, isn’t it?

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10. June 18: Oxford… There is a town further south and more west that had been on my radar for quite some time. I  did a little researching and found out that besides its town center charm and well known university, Oxford is home to the oldest covered bridge in Butler County. I took the girls there first for their yearly photograph to replace last year’s- I love, love covered bridges and old barns. Maybe it’s because they are so unique to where I am from in California, or, maybe they’re fun to take pictures of and remind one’s self of another time period when such places were built with function in mind and not for an awe – factor. Either way… they’re on my way cool list. We strolled, we ate, we did some sweating.

_MG_0459-EditI currently don’t have anything on our list of things to do this summer (except to move) – and with the busy spring we had, I’m okay with that…

Ten on Tuesday

*please pardon the extreme randomness

1. I much prefer whiteboard markers and whiteboards to chalk and blackboards.

2. Do you ever compare your left fingernail growth with your right fingernail growth? I forget who taught me this silly habit years ago, but it’s always my left handed fingers that win.

3. It’s easier to find viable veins in my left arm than my right.

4. Today is our eighth wedding anniversary- what were you doing on June 15, 2002? I was wearing a beautiful white dress with purple toe polish. One of those two can be said about today.

5. I am thinking about getting presciprion sunglasses. We’re moving to the desert. I don’t wear contact lenses anymore. I think I’ve justified it enough in two sentences.

6. Confession: I’ve started to give stores our former phone number when they ask at the cash register. WHY does it seem like all stores want all my contact information? Seriously folks, can we do the transaction and you can stop pretending like you need my phone number to charge me for a shirt?

7. Speaking of cashiers (we were, right?), I recently sent an online not-so-good evaluation of a local Panera swearing off that store forever (which isn’t hard to do when you’re leaving in a month) and they sent an apology and reimbursed me for my trouble, plus some. I’m thankful that they did not just let my note go by the wayside, but I’d still like to see some real change in their customer service department and I’m afraid my one little note probably won’t do the trick.

8. My parents keep sending me text pictures of their zucchini garden. I’m buying them shirts that say: Benfield Garden Pride. And charging them for when I go over my text allotment for the month. hee-hee.

9. For those following the drama that the paperwork has been for our upcoming move, you’ll be happy to hear: We have “orders.” What does that mean? We can schedule packers/movers and hopefully meet the date to get out of our house by the end of the month. For those who’ve inquired, thank you for thinking of us!

10. My neighbor friend Lisa celebrated her birthday this past weekend so a couple of us plotted to start her day off in a celebratory mood. We planted some 39 pinwheels in her garden and put these half-full cups of water on her driveway to wake up to. There were some signs and artwork in chalk, too, and luckily, she has a wonderful sense of humor :) Andy had no idea that I moonlight as a prankster.

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Ten on Tuesday

1. Hey, Soul Sister… was downloaded last week compliments of the Shizam app somewhere on the backroads of Virginia- thank you technology for figuring out the title and band, I can’t get this song out of my head :)

2. Have you recently been a recipient of someone’s time? I have- I am super blessed for dear friends – one in particular that gave up their afternoon to watch my girls and allow me  to go see a semi-private showing of a DAYtime movie. I kind of felt like I was cheating on my kids sitting in the dark for 2 1/2 hours. Thank you, friend.

3. I was thinking out loud that I need to finish up my Ten Free Things I Love To Do series soon- it’s been dragging on… and I keep forgetting and, and…

4. Another week = no orders. Another week closer to the end of June = slightly more sweat.

5. Is there anything better than spending a Tuesday night at a friend’s house dancing the hours away while our kids run around entertaining us? It’s even better when they join us.

6. Andy called tonight and said we had to have a talk. I started to get nervous- what did I not tell him about that I bought recently? I am sure he knew about the gladiator sandals… “Did you know that you sent 262 texts last month?” to which I replied, “Nope, had no idea. I thought I had unlimited texting.” Then he laughed because he probably told me that I did at some point, but wanted to know when a teenager moved into our house? And he said I could send/receive 7 a day to stay at 200.

7. I told my mom about this funny texting conversation and she proceeded to tell me the amount of texts my brother and sister sent/received last month: Ty: 7,654  and  Becca: 5,435. Not. Even. Exaggerating. I have a feeling my little 262 texts in a one month does not put me even close to “teenager” status anymore.

8. My older girls are super excited for their dance recital this Saturday- and I’m running the Yellow Springs 5K in the am just so I can get a cool tie-die T-Shirt. How pathetic, right?

9. Our church has such a cool interactive Family Ministry- I’m considering asking them to begin a long distance partnership so I can still receive the family ministry materials. Probably not, huh?

10 Sarah finished up her first grade year today- I love the side-by-side comparison shots I’ve seen in the blogosphere from the first day to the last day lately- so I thought I’d join in. What do you think- has she changed much (first day back in August 2009 on the left, May 2010, on the right?):

Untitled-10If you thought she was one cute and sassy first grader, I believe that she has grown even more beautiful this past year! She has such a kind heart and continues to be helpful around our home and with friends in many ways. She has blossomed into quite a reader this past school year and I am excited to see what second grade holds for her this fall!

Ten on Tuesday

1. I am out of detergent. Like call the neighbor and ask to borrow some detergent the night before you leave out of town out.

2. Are you on Twitter? That place cracks me up, but this fan favorite had me giggling: Ken Levine tweeted: Al & Tipper Gore are separating. Who gets custody of the Internet?

3. I tell you, some people have all the wit.

4. Andy doesn’t have orders. No orders = no scheduling movers = no getting on a list for base housing at our next base. This might be a good time to do a little PSA: Don’t procrastinate paperwork. The military peeps love them some paperwork to be filled out.

5. Ashleigh finished up her last day of preschool on Friday and Lauren ended her little playgroup day as well. They both think they are going to Kindergarten in the fall.

6. The GPS in my truck took me on one too many backroads from Virginia to Ohio today so I fired it. Override, turned it off, unplugged it. Do you see my tongue sticking out at you, Mr. I-Know-The-Best-Route-To-Go GPS? Luckily, Ms. Felicity has a better idea. Yea for the Google App.

7. I have four of ten places left to cross off our Spring Adventure list before moving. I don’t know if we can do them all but we are certainly going to try.

8. Do you like to buy super cute summer tanks at really decent prices? I’ve picked up a few of these tanks with gathered  edges at Target this spring. They are only $8- shhh… don’t tell too many people or they won’t have your size ! Here’s an insiders tip: buy a size down for a more fitted look.

9. I also stepped out of my comfort zone and ordered these gladiator sandals to replace my Bendolino’s that broke- twice. Arg. But, I’m hopeful with seventeen straps, these new sandals won’t be trying to break free from my feet.

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10. I really try to hand over my camera to strangers to get us all in a family shot from time to time. But its results like this that make me shake my head and wonder, “What DID he see in there?” and “Why did I bother?” Ah well, here we all are together at the World War II Memorial in Washington, D.C. yesterday- uncropped for added humor, of course.

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