Once a week, we have a local paper delivered that tells of the community’s happenings and such. There is a section not too far past the front page titled "FACEs of the Future " that is an acronym for Fraternity of Academic and Civic Excellence. High school students are chosen throughout North County that exemplify outstanding academic and community service. As if Andy and I live in our hometown, we are always interested and fascinated by the short bios and photos of four talented teenagers of tomorrow right here in our community.
A few weeks ago, Andy made mention to me that the FACES seemed to always be females with high GPAs, members of prestigious societies that high schoolers can become apart of for college resumes (and bragging rights), volunteers for community organizations, tutors for biophysical medicine (yes, really, I read it in there once). I was taken aback since I could remember very recently reading about a couple of guy scholars having made the FACEs column… and then he showed me that the four people on the page were sure enough X Chromosomers. And then two weeks ago, it was four young ladies again. And then last week, a guy was selected to be showcased here. He was proving to me that he was right and then two nights ago, he came across the FACEs page once again while I was watching some nonsense on the tube. He didn’t even tell me what he was reading but I could tell by glancing over.
So I asked, "How many?"
And without batting an eye, he answered, "Three and one."
And that was it. I didn’t have to engage him into a side story about the article. I know Andy. I know what he likes. I know what he was shaking his head about. We have arrived in that comfortable spot right now where we have "inside stuff." I am sure we have been here for awhile but it feels good to just be reminded of that.
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We met for lunch at Carl’s today and the guy taking our order was incredibly rude, among other non-friendly qualities. I am not very confrontational but believe there is something called a little respect you should give to the people contributing to your paycheck. I was on the verge of saying something (but there is that little voice inside that says to be compassionate, maybe we could bring him the smile that he needs) when I looked over at my husband and we both gave each other that look that basically said, "Dude, what’s your deal? If you don’t want to interact with people, quit this job and go live in Antarctica."
But neither one of said anything of this sort to the guy.
But we said it in our look to each other.
Because we’re just like that. We have inside stuff.